How to finger a pussy

All men feel that as soon as they are able to finger a pussy, that is all it takes to make a girl turned on real good and get her to go all the way. This is not usually the case.

Pussy finger fucking is actually an art. The art of masturbating your girl’s or woman’s vagina with your own fingers. First, you must be familiar with the vagina. Most men would say, you’ve seen one, you’ve seen it all. That may be, but like every girl, every vagina is as unique as each girl or woman. However generally, the vagina is composed of the outer fold, or the labia majora. This is usually covered with pubic hair if your girl does not shave. Then inside are two matching folds, smaller than the outer folds or lips. They are called the labia minora. They are quite sensitive, but they do not necessarily give out pleasure. Now to the center of the vagina itself. On the topmost part, where the outer fold and inner folds converge, there is a small, pea-like structure that is the seat of all sensations – the clitoris. As a pussy-finger-fucker expert, you must know that this little raised point is very important in making your pussy finger-fucking a success. Then for the top, moving down, you will pass by the urethra, where the urine goes out, as well as the female ejaculate, for girls and women who actually ejaculate. There will be a small distance between the urethra and the actual opening of the vagina. This portion is also sensitive but not necessarily a source of climax. Then when you penetrate the vagina, you will of course enter a canal that feels soft, moist (if your girl is aroused), warm and depending on the girl or woman, it could be very tight, it could be just enough to wrap your two fingers around with. Inside the vagina are vaginal walls. On the front vaginal wall is a rough, slightly raised portion. This is supposed to be the girl’s G-spot. Depending on the girl – some feel a lot of sensation and may even have orgasms when the G-spot is stimulated. Others don’t. Just further down below after the vagina is the anus. Some girls like their anus stimulated, others don’t. So play it by the ear.

Inasmuch is finger fucking a girl’s pussy is not that simple, it is not rocket science either. An important factor for a really unforgettable, sensually-satisfying finger fuck is for both sex partners to communicate. The girl should communicate which part she would like to be touched more, how hard, how soft, circular, etc.

Next, it is very, very important for everyone, men and women, boys and girls to remember, always lubricate first before doing anything down her vagina – always remember that the vagina, especially the clitoris are very sensitive to both pleasure – and pain. So be careful. Friction without enough lubrication in both can be uncomfortable, for some painful. If your girl is not wet yet, you can wet your fingers using your saliva or you can ask her to lick your fingers before inserting in her. Or if you are also licking her clit, it-s a no-brainer. If she is already wet, well, you have no problem. Just make sure the vagina and clit are wet before you start work down there.

Here are a few things to remember when finger-fucking your girl:

When you want to rub her clitoris, the up-down movement is guaranteed to work rather than the side-to-side movement. It doesn’t mean you can’t vary, but when she is near orgasm, or when she wants to maximize the sensations, at least you know what stroke to use. Just remember, up-down stroke works best in giving her the most pleasure – even when using the tongue.

As to the question of how many fingers to insert – usually one would be okay for a tease, but when she is already aroused, two would be best. However, it really depends on whether your girl is very tight or just okay like the other girls. It would really help if both sex partners communicate. Others may want three fingers. It really depends on the girl. When penetrating her vagina, what works best is to push your fingers all the way in, slowly at first and then synchronizing the in-out motion with her gyrations and actions, you will know how fast you need to go. But the first time your fingers go in, what you can do is position your fingers so you can actually curve your fingers so you can touch the front portion of the vaginal wall. When your fingers are all the way in, curve your fingers going out, touching the whole length of the raised and rough portion or the G-spot. It also ensures you really hit it. When you hit the right spot, you will know by the reaction of your girl. When your girl is close to orgasm, always remember to keep your fingers in and synchronize the speed of your in-and-out motion with the build-up of her orgasm.
Another thing to remember is that you have to be consistent. If you feel that your girl react most to certain strokes on a particular place, just make sure to focus consistently on these areas and on the type of stroke. You can venture briefly by using other strokes, but always consistently go back to those she reacts the most with. But make sure that when she is near orgasm, DO NOT EXPERIMENT! You must only focus on the areas and the types of strokes that make her go wild! You can also ask her how she wants it – ask her, you want it faster? Harder? Softer? You want me to do this? Keep checking.
It also helps to stimulate the other parts of her vagina or the other parts near her vagina like her inner thighs and lower abdomen – you can rub her there. Or also give kisses on her breasts. All these actions contribute to all the sensations she is actually experiencing.
Always make sure that you stimulate the clitoris sufficiently. If she is near orgasm, never leave the clitoris. You may have to use both hands if you have to. When she reaches orgasm, make sure you don’t abruptly pull out or stop your penetration and your rubbing. Keep them there until she gradually goes down from her climax. Only pull your fingers out – slowly – after she has fully satisfied her orgasm. This is because your girl might have a chance to have multiple orgasms, especially when you are correctly stimulating her G-spot.

To have the best position during finger fucking, most men and girls find it easier and more effective if they position themselves at the back of their girls. Like standing behind your girl and stimulating her from your front – it would feel like you are actually stimulating her like her own hands would. Another trick is to have her sit down on your lap facing the other way. Spread her legs wide. Or she can pull her thighs toward her breasts to fully expose her vagina. If both of you are lying down, a spooning position will also work best. However, other girls and men feel that the position is not really as important. You can always experiment on what position works best. You can even do a 69 position so your girl can also stimulate your dick or your vagina.

What is just important to note is that your finger is a bit rougher and a bit harder than the tongue. So always handle the vagina and the clitoris with a bit more gentleness and softness. One mistake most me have is to think that the vagina is like a dick – the harder, the rougher, the better. It doesn’t work that way. Most of the parts of the vagina just need soft, tender, loving care. Of course, as mentioned earlier, each girl is just as unique as their vagina. A boy or girl must know what works for their lady. Others like it rough and hard, but most women and girls always like it gradual, gentle, soft, warm and wet. And oh yes –consistent.

Every boy or man who masters the art of finger fucking the pussy of his lady is always the big winner. For those who are still learning how to successfully finger a pussy, the most important tip is to play it by the ear, but very, very importantly, just don’t jump in like you are in a hurry to let her climax. Start slow, soft, gentle and lubricate all the way. Do not forget to communicate, and do not leave her hanging. Just stick around, stick it in until she is consummated with her orgasm. For sure, you will leave her wanting for more action in the future.

Visitors' comments

amber on Friday 27th of January 2018 11:11:47 PM wrote

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jennifer on Wednesday 18th of July 2018 05:59:26 PM wrote

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mr.B.I.G. on 16.03.2019 at 03:07:33 wrote

Wow... These articles have really had a significant effect on my sex life. Before I would have a hard time getting my girlfriend to even blow me or let me finger her even if she was horny let alone have sex, now it seems like I can hardly get her to let me eat breakfast without trying to fuck me. Our sex life has gotten 100 times better than it ever was, she's been starting to do some kinky stuff with me to like blowing me in the movie theater and having sex in our childrens school bathroom ;D

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vanessa on Sunday 3rd of May 2019 04:02:36 PM wrote

My finger won't insert it's the first time trying

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