How to lick a pussy

Before diving into action, it is important to know that not all pussies are the same – there are lots of different types of pussies – size, color, shapes. Some are plump, some are folded inside, some are just luscious, some are pink, others mocha, others have thick lips called the labia, others have thin lips while others have the clitoris sticking out and the others just guarded together by the other labia.

Any person who likes to lick a girl’s or woman’s pussy is always remembered by his or her sexual partner. Nothing can come close to the pleasure and the sensation felt by any girl or woman during foreplay than her clitoris being licked and eaten.

First, it is important for everyone to have a mini tour of the vagina. The vagina is composed of: two outer covers, or lips, or labia. If a woman does not shave, this portion is usually covered with pubic hairs. Then there are the inner covers, much smaller, thinner and smoother compared to the outer covers or labia. The inner labia are more sensitive compared to the other outer labia. Right under the uppermost portion of the vagina where all the folds meet and converge into a hood is a small, pea-like and pea-sized clitoris, the seat of all sexual pleasures in every woman or girl and the focus of most pussy-licking actions. Some clitoris just stick out naturally. Others are just hidden behind the folds. Others are bigger than usual, while others are tiny. Whatever size, shape or position it is in, it is capable of giving unbelievable pleasure to any woman. Then going down from the clitoris, in the middle is the urethra. This is the opening for urine and the opening for female ejaculate fluids. After the urethra is the opening to the vagina. The innermost portion of the vagina consists of muscular walls. The front wall, which is rugged in texture is supposed to be the G-Spot, another part of a girl’s or woman’s sexual organ that contributes to a really explosive orgasm.

Now let’s focus on one particular part of the girl’s or woman’s vagina wherein pussylicking is most pleasurable – the clitoris. Like a pea, the clitoris is round, the size of the tip of the girls’ smallest finger – usually. It is very sensitive to all sensations, especially pleasure. The different parts of the clitoris have different levels of sensations. One side may be more sensitive than the other or maybe both. The upper most portion might have a dull but contributing sensation while the centermost portion, the peak, is the most sensitive part, but also the most stimulated part. Since the clitoris is very sensitive in nature, it should be handled with delicate softness in all the action focused on that area. If licking the clitoris, it must be done softly, gently and delicately. Biting is painful for every girl or woman in this area. So definitely, no teeth must be involved. Also, hard sucking is not pleasurable – it can be painful or annoying to a woman. It must be noted also that stimulating the clitoris without proper lubrication can hurt. So these tips should give anyone an idea of the level of sensitivity of the clitoris.

Most men believe there is nothing more to pussy licking than just that – licking. Boys and men believe that this type of tongue action is in the bag. No, it’s not. Not all girls and women achieve the maximum sensation with just any type of pussylicking.

Most mistake men do is just nose-dive right down into the clitoris. Sure, it is the main object, but it sure would help if they start out right:

Teasing any girl before actual pussylicking helps her get in the mood, shed her inhibitions and actually relax and enjoy the sex.
Slowly go down from kissing her breasts, leave a trail of hot kisses down the center of her abdomen, down to her navel.
Then tease her by kissing her thighs, going down to the crease that separates the thigh and the outer corner of the pubic area.
Kiss the corner where her thighs and her pubic area converge, lick it softly.
Do the same with the other leg.
This teasing should put her in the mood and make her all hot inside and some girls and women might even be starting to get wet at this time.
Just continue the teasing action, passing from one side to another, just making your noses slightly touch the center of her vagina and the clitoris.

At this point in this slow teasing, she will be more than ready for your tongue and mouth on her vagina.

Slightly lick the opening at the center of the vagina from the bottom going up to the clitoris – just a soft, teasing lick. The girl’s legs should shudder at this point and she may even spread her legs voluntarily to expose her vagina.
Gently retract her outer lips to expose her clitoris even more. Lick the inner labia or lips.
Open the hood enclosing the clitoris, hold them back and softly at first, make quick flicking licks on the clitoris. Your girl’s body should react to this and you should hear a loud moan by now.
Do this for some time. Play it by the ear. You will know when your girl wants more.

Sure, flicking, licking running your tongue through your girl’s clitoris seems to be the right thing to do. But is that all? To make it more exciting, more sensual, more pleasurable for your girl, do more:

Lick the top of the hood of the clit. It has become very sensitive too. Lick it from side to side. This should slow the build up to the orgasm yet give her another sensation and still maintain that feeling.
Then round your lips and cover the whole clitoral area and very gently start sucking. Now you have to be very careful. Another mistake men do is think that girls like their clit sucked as hard as girls suck their dicks. Wrong! The clitoris is very sensitive, and any hard sucking or too hard pressure can be uncomfortable or painful. So ease up on that sucking. What you need to do is cover the entire hood and maybe a portion of the inner lip or the labia minora. Just suck lightly. If she wants more then give her more, but not too hard. Keep the suction feeling while from inside your mouth, you run your lip up and down the middle of her lips up to her clit. Still maintaining the sucking motion, do the tongue up and down movement. This will make your girl go into a frenzy.
Sucking is great especially when your girl is already so ready to have an orgasm. If after all the licking action, penetration and stimulation, she is ready to climax, suck her clit consistently, while continuing your tongue action inside the suction. Just observe her reactions. Go with her motion, but do not let go of her clitoris. Keep sucking it gently but firmly, just enough, and as her motion becomes more demanding, quicker and at this point, she might be really asking you not to stop or to give her more – do just that. When she finally arches her back in climax, do not let go, maintain the suction. She will yell for you anyway not to stop. So don’t. Another big mistake of men – they just drop their girls like they’re hot right in the middle of the climax! Remember, a girl may have a chance to have multiple orgasm or a prolonged orgasm if you do it right! So keep it there until finally she gradually eases down or if she asks you to stop. This way, you actually complete the climax cycle of a girl. She will definitely always remember you as the best pussy licker and sucker ever!

Pussy-licking can also be combined with other tongue actions on a girl’s vagina so she will experience more pleasure!

While sucking and licking, try sticking your tongue inside your girl’s vagina.
Stick out your tongue as hard as you can, aiming for the entrance of her vagina.
Mimicking your dick, thrust it deep into her vagina. Mimick the motion of dick penetraton. She will definitely love the warmth, wetness and smoothness of your tongue as it goes inside of her vagina.
Alternate the tongue penetration with sucking or licking the clitoris.
Also, try licking the other parts of the vagina like the labia minora or the inner lips. Try playing with them with your lips. Never with your teeth. Oops! Yes! Big mistake! Never, never use your teeth.
Always remember that the vagina, especially the clitoris are very, very sensitive! Nibbling using the teeth can be very painful! So no teeth, please.

Combining pussy-licking with stimulation of the G-spot can give your girl multiple orgasms. Try the following:

While you are licking your girl’s clit or sucking it, try to penetrate her vagina using one or two fingers.
Aim for her G-spot. How to find it? While inside her vagina, feel for a rugged, slightly-raised portion of her front vaginal wall. You can’t miss it – the rest of the vagina is smooth and soft while the G-spot is a bit rough and harder.
Continue to lick with flicking actions your girl’s clitoris and while your fingers are inside her vagina, try to make a ‘come here’ motion with your fingers, stimulating her G-spot.
Alternate this with mimicking the motion of your dick penetrating her vagina.
Synchronize your in-out motion with her actions.
It will be give her a lot of added sensations if you keep doing this while licking her pussy.
Stimulating the g-spot might give your girl a chance to achieve multiple orgasm.
If you feel that she is already near climax, stick your fingers in her vagina again, aiming for the g-spot.
As she is almost there, suck her clitoris and matching the quickness of her breathing or her actions – she might be moving her hips up and down or will be mimicking a humping action – stimulate her g-spot.
As she explodes into orgasm, keep the suction going on her clitoris while you continue stimulating her g-spot. This should give her a much more prolonged orgasm.
If you feel that her body is having spasm after spasm, your girl may be experiencing multiple orgasms already. Do not let go – continue stimulating her G-spot while just keeping the suction on her clit. It is important to note that the action during climax should be more on her g-spot, not much on the clit as the clit will be highly-sensitive for any more touching at this point. Let the g-spot carry her through her orgasms.
She may be howling in ecstasy and may be telling you never to stop at this point. So don’t stop. Keep going until her orgasm finally tapers gradually.

A lot of articles, feedbacks, blogs, myths and truths have been published regarding pussylicking. Other guys feel that sex is just about the size of their penis – they are wrong. They may feel that their actions and their penetrations – how long and how hard are all that matter in sex. Big mistake. Others may feel that pussylicking is for pussies. They are very, very wrong. Girls adore and always have special thoughts on men who do special tongue action on their pussies! Men who go south are always winners in any girl’s book. Any girl will keep wanting more from any guy who do great pussylicking. Any girl would rather have good pussy licking anytime and will even go as far as forgetting that their sexual partner doesn’t have an impressive package or the face of Brad Pitt. For as long as a guy knows how to give her girl an excellent pussy licking, she will definitely stick around.

Visitors' comments

MRS.Anderson on Thursday 29th of April 2010 09:06:56 AM wrote

That shit feels so damn good when my husband does it to me. I like to ride his face while he puts his tongue all the way in my pussy and rub his noise and fingers all over my pussy. Makes him very hard too, so people you should try that and it makes sex even better!

dae on Wednesday 21st of December 2011 08:51:10 PM wrote

I know that shit feels good!

Joshua R. HILL on Friday 23rd of December 2011 08:47:35 PM wrote

I tried this on my girlfriend and she loved it. We were close to breaking up. She didn't want to spend alot of time with me. So one night I was reading this article and decide to try it. The next day I told her we were goin on a date and I took her back to my place. And I have to say we have been hanging out a lot more lately.

Lovemedonthate on Tuesday 24th of January 2012 05:28:17 AM wrote

It feels damn great when my bf did it to me.

bobby on Thursday 1st of November 2012 10:28:23 AM wrote

When your face is near her pussy, take deep breaths through your nose and tell her how wonderful she smells. Most girls are self conscious about this and it will get her wet even more.

ALISA on Wednesday 13th of February 2013 07:45:44 PM wrote

My boyfriend learnt the way to lick me on your site and your ways are fucking pleasurable now it's in such a worst condition that all the time I wish for his tongue finger and cock touching teasing and to penetrate in my vagina.

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